"We want to control our process. We want to control how others view us. We want to control the outcome. But this is not how God has created us to function or called us to live if we’re going to experience the fullness of life. And you probably know this with your head but your nature fights against it by habit."
As a 25-year-old college graduate, I have been battling pornography for just about half my life. The fact is, more young men and women than ever are growing up with this same struggle against pornography. I decided to write a letter to myself, a younger version of me, sharing some of the things I wish I had known when I first started looking at pornography and what I’ve learned in the past 10 years.