Somewhere along the way, I decided to be the "low maintenance" one, but it came at a very high cost.
As an Achiever, I like to fix things. If you bring me a problem, I move into default mode of problem solving. But sometimes, my friends don’t need me to wave a magic wand and make things better. As an Achiever, I make three mistakes in talking with my hurting friends when instead I should do these three things. Below is an apology to all my friends who have hurt and I have tried to fix.