He was a breakout actor in the award winning Brokeback Mountain and best known for his role as The Joker in Batman: The Dark Night, for which he won an Oscar.
Now, eight years after the actor’s death, Heath Ledger’s father, Kim, has opened up about his son’s tragic last words.
Ledger died from a lethal drug overdose in 2008. In an honest interview, Kim revealed that the last conversation Heath had before he died was with his sister Kate. In their final chat, she had warned him not to mix prescription medications that he didn’t know anything about.
Kim replayed the siblings interaction: “He said, ‘Katie, Katie, I’ll be fine!’”
“Well, that’s a cavalier boy’s answer. It just put his whole system to sleep I guess,” Kim shares his opinion on his son’s actions.
He then goes on to admit that the actor’s death was nobody’s fault but his own. “It was totally his fault,” Kim said. “It was no one else’s—he reached for them. He put them in his system. You can’t blame anyone else in that situation. That’s so hard to accept because I loved him so much and was so proud of him.”
His final words were a cry for help. But nobody knew that until it was too late.
Heath’s sister Katie knew that he was mixing medications carelessly, and without any knowledge about their effects.
If you know that somebody is misusing drugs or prescription medications, it’s important to ask the tough questions. Ask them what they’re dealing with, why they have the medications, what they’re doing with them and how you can help.
So many times we deflect the care people want to give us by saying two words we know are a lie: “I’m fine.”
Heath did exactly that.
Don’t settle for an annoyed answer, or a lie that’s used to ‘get you off their back.’ Find out what’s really going on with your friends and family, and alert somebody that can help if you suspect that a loved one is struggling, or harming their body in a way that could be detrimental.
We are all responsible for knowing the signs of someone who’s crying out for help, and knowing how to ask the hard questions—because they’re so worth it.
Heath Ledger was found by his housekeeper, unconscious in his bed at his apartment in New York on January 22, 2008. Paramedics pronounced him dead shortly after he was found. His autopsy report found traces of oxycodone, hydrocodone, diazepam, temazepam, alprazolam and doxylamine in his body.